TO THE LEFT TO THE LEFT...

Ok i wanted to do this one for ladies...we have to be stronger than this I keep hearing guys complain about how there are no ladies left who arent damaged in someway by a previous relationship there is no reason for this to be happening....Ladies YOU are the creators of your own stress...and your own happiness.  First off when you're in a relationship that first mistake he makes should be the last..."sorries" can only be repeated but so many times...you are young and even tho it feels like there will never be anything better than what he gives you...unless he can truly promise that he wont screw you over again(which is rare but can happen)then LET IT GO because that means that the right person for you is still out there looking for you...dont leave them searching for you any longer....now secondly even tho that one guy broke your heart and it feels like he broke you down, learn this right now ladies no man has the power to break you...WOMEN BEND WE DONT BREAK...cry about it for about a month then call ya gurls, put on a freakum dress,plum lipstick, and 5inch heels( 6in. if your my height..lol)  and go out and have fun and never look back...and who ever the next guy that comes along he will not be like your ex simply because HE IS NOT YOUR EX but also ladies dont seek out men who have the same qualities as your ex because i mean well what else do you expect to happen...but yeah the next guy does not need nor does he want to hear about what your ex did or that your still dealing with what happened....you are allowing your ex that control in your life why does he deserve to have that?  Ladies we can do better...everyone comes into our life for a reason so take it as a lesson learned and smile...you control your own happiness so make YOUR life about YOUR happiness and move on...send his ass a postcard ; ]