JUST A GIRL NOT EEEVN LOOKIN FOR LOVE...

So me and my girl had a lil chat about whether we were truly happy being single or were we just scared of being in a relationship, because living in fear of something is never healthy but the more we talked we found an answer to our own question....We are happy and it really doesn’t have anything to do with being single. There are 3 main aspects of life: Family,Career,Relationships...everyone has a different story for each one and each one has to be in order to find harmony and peace. So why am i single right now? or why does it seem that every guy in my life right now just seems to be here for the present, creating a distraction and slowly creeping into my past...the conclusion i came up with was that right now with all the opportunities that keep finding me somehow i know it can only be God he's working on the "career" part of my life...it wouldn’t be true if the things that are happening in my life weren’t happening...in some way every opportunity that has been given to me(career wise) are all connected the job opportunities, the major im choosing, the classes im taking...they all share a connection that is preparing me for what i want to do in the future...God is also putting into perspective for me how important family is...how much i need my mother in my life and learning patience and forgiveness with my father...In all honesty i haven’t been truly this happy in so long and i am content and i wake up every day happy and go to bed anticipating the next day...so i know if God is working n this part of my life I don’t want to be anywhere else but right there with him helping him out and i know when HE's ready he will begin working on my love life and relationships but it’s all on HIS time and HIS plan...and it can’t be right if God isn’t in it so ima just sit back and chill till he brings me someone special to hold my hand while we on this roller coaster called life...until then ima just keep smiling...